Denial exists only in language, but is programming us for what is denied or prohibited.

V4. MUST

The word «must» destroys our psyche if there is no understanding of the real pay off.

Only an awareness of the real consequences will allow the right actions to be taken, destroying self hypnosis of «have to».

V5. POSITIVITY

Speak about others positively or not at all.

Speak imagining that those we talk about are near and hear us; in today’s world, this is actually so.

V6. ADVICE

Avoid giving advice or making an evaluation.

By advising we unjustifiably take on unnecessary responsibility, by assessing we unduly take over the role of a judge.