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5. Way, Deep Secrets, 2.

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7. Judy Y. Chu, “A Relational Perspective on Adolescent Boys’ Identity Development,” in Adolescent Boys: Exploring Diverse Cultures of Boyhood, ed. Niobe Way and Judy Y. Chu (New York: New York University Press, 2004), 85.

8. Там же, 95.

9. Way, Deep Secrets, 171.

10. Там же, 1.

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12. Eric Anderson, Inclusive Masculinity: The Changing Nature of Masculinities (New York: Routledge, 2009), 7.

13. Там же, 7.

14. Way, Deep Secrets, 222.

15. Там же, 20.

16. Там же, 263.

17. Barrie Thorne, Gender Play: Girls and Boys in School (New Brunswick, NJ: Rutgers University Press, 1994), 47.

18. Ehrmann, InSideOut Coaching, 141.

19. Там же, 246.

20. Lionel Howard, “Performing Masculinity: Adolescent African American Boys’ Response to Gender Scripting,” THYMOS: Journal of Boyhood Studies 6, no. 1 (Spring 2012) (eds. Reichert and Nelson): 97–115.

21. Joseph Derrick Nelson, “Transformative Brotherhood: Black Boys’ Identity in a Single-Sex School for Boys of Color” (unpublished dissertation, City University of New York, 2013).